Well, I don't know if you mean me. You may not believe this, but I approach these conversations with the idea of attempting to disprove what is considered settled science around here: what is the extraordinary claim, and can it be true? Not because I disbelieve the sort of Toole-ish canon here, but because trying to disprove seems like what we ought to be doing. I try to channel my skepticism into just being really clear about what is being claimed that goes against what I know of the research. In this case I wanted to know if there is some kind of resonance below established audible thresholds that IS indeed audible (or creates IMD, or simply worth pursuing for engineering's sake, or whatever the claim being made here was).
But, as I said, when the claimer seems to be avoiding those kinds of specific questions, then I begin to feel like he might be just putting me on.
So you can claim there's some sort of diseased culture here, or you can examine your own behavior to see if you might not be stating your case as clearly as you might. I'm sure we can all do better.
Hope you stick around.