I'll bite - a bit.
Topping and SMSL are almost certainly NOT cold in character, but your speakers may have a peaky upper mid and sharp hf end which might give you that impression!
Take it from someone who's been there - we almost ALWAYS blame a bad sound on the wrong component and can live in denial for years sometimes, as I did while all the time my ears were failing at mid-hf frequencies (I summed a few speakers up as 'dull with tinsel' until I was almost forcibly (by my wife and son) educated by three hearing tests into realising how far the mid kHz region had suffered in my ears' sensitivity)...
If you think your ears and the mind/personality behind them are infallible for you, then fair enough at this time, but I can assure you (along with most here over 50 or 60), that one day you'll be fooled in your subjective impressions - and then a whole load of doubts will creep in as the subjectivist wall comes crashing down around your once seemingly infallible ears!!!
Why not stay, go hear as much live unamplified music as you can as well and maybe your perceptions may change. I mean, I don't follow the crowd here and a classic case for me is my love of larger three-driver active ATC's which are a bit dated technically now but which 'sound' so convincing to me. Contrast that with some amazingly well 'measuring' and technically advanced Genelecs, which at least two people here (one a recording/mastering? engineer) have suggested don't sound 'right,' with some kind of upper mid/lower top 'resonance' that's difficult to pick up on but seemingly easy to hear when compared with their traditional in-line bass-mid-top actives.
So much to learn still and I'm still enjoying the ride although out of it now apart from here...