It's clumsy, but you could just set the volume the same on each unit and run mono RCA to 3.5mm cables. There's also a custom version with a euroblock connector for integrators. But yeah, not ideal.
Right, according to forum reports though the lowest you can get latency to on a Reactor in their "normal" modes is 60ms. There is some confusing procedure that maybe gets you down to 1ms IF you use single channel(only) optical inputs, which is where the crazy Dante setup comes in. But it's not clear to me if that actually works right on Reactors or only the other higher end ones...
Also, if you do any video gaming, even 60ms of audio latency is probably a dealbreaker.