Sorry but this is wrong. You are correct that lobing occurs when two drivers are playing the same frequency, if those drivers are separated by a physical distance more than 1/4 wavelength. In any crossover between two drivers, each is playing the same frequency across some portion of the range, because crossovers are not brick walls(one driver does not immediately cut over to the other frequency, it's gradual on both sides).
In a 2-way bookshelf, there are only two drives, but lobing still occurs. It matters less because of the orientation, the lobing occurs in the vertical direction. In an MTM center, there are 3 drivers(two woofers, one tweeter). If it is 2-way, then *three* drivers are playing the same frequency, and the lobing is also in the horizontal direction which we hear better than vertical. That's why it's so bad.
In this 2.5-way, there are *still* two drivers playing the same frequency for each range. It's one woofer + one tweeter in each case. This may reduce the severity of lobing vs all three playing at one frequency, but it will also extend it over a larger frequency range, since now you will have lobes caused by both combinations of drivers at different frequency ranges.
There are plenty of good 3-way centers $2K and below, like the Kef R6 Meta, Kef R2 Meta, and Kef Q6 Meta(only $800) in order of descending price. Ascend makes the
Sierra Horizon with dome tweeter for $1400 and ribbon for $1700(for which they publish real measurements from an NFS). Elac has the
UC52 for $750.
These are just ones that I remember offhand, I'm sure there are many others. Plus, basically any coaxial bookshelf like the Kef R3 Meta can be placed on its side to make an excellent center.