It looks like I've found a solution!
I don't know that it will be something others would spring for here, as it will be expensive. But it's pretty much exactly what I was looking for so I'll describe the scenario.
My friend, an audio writer for Soundstage, was in Poland covering the recent audio show in Warsaw. In one room he spotted an interesting looking remote control with a volume knob. He remembered we had just talked about how I was looking for such a remote, he snapped a photo with the contact info and sent it to me.
Here's the photo:
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They are a Polish company. The remote is currently called the
OmniArc.
I contacted Adams Custom Audio via email and asked about the remote. It's an IR remote specially made to use with their custom amplifiers.
However, being a custom place, they are amenable to making one for me that would work with my preamps! Yay!
Given the only control for sending commands is the volume knob the programming options are of course limited compared to a typical universal remote. But this is fine with me because it will do enough for my purposes. I always make things hard on myself by making things complicated - in this instance I want to be able to operate EITHER my Benchmark preamp or my Conrad Johnson preamp at whim with such a remote. Fortunately Adams can accommodate this in the programming.
So the programming will work like this:
If I'm listening using the Benchmark preamp, the volume knob on this custom remote will of course control volume via IR commands by turning the knob. A press of the knob will mute (though I will likely assign this to the -20dB function on the Benchmark, which I really like better than full mute).
If I press down on the knob and turn to the right it will send a command to cycle forward through the Benchmark inputs (DAC, Phono, Aux where I'm running my CJ through..). Press/hold turn left will cycle inputs the other way.
If I press and hold for, say, 5 seconds, it will load the commands for the CJ preamp, and now I'll be operating my CJ preamp. So turning knob for volume, pressing knob once for mute, press/hold turn right for phono input (discrete command), press/hold turn left for digital input (discrete command).
With some more imagination other controls can be incorporated. But the commands above are already more than I thought I'd get out of such a device! So I'm already thrilled with the idea.
Yes this will be expensive! But I interact with my system almost every day, and something like this will be worth it to me.
Another photo, in zebra wood. (I will likely order it with a black knob rather than silver):
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