There is no arguing with listener perceptions or preferences. If the "growl" upon turning EQ off is preferred, then what can we say? But, in the history of audio, many are the boomy, overhangy, non-linear boxes through many decades that were immensely popular, decidedly preferred and commercially successful in the untreated and unEQed room situation that prevailed.
Yes, by all means, investigate further. But, if you are completely thorough about it, you have to question what is really there on the recording vs. what is in your head in terms of artificial expectations of the sound that are not really there on the recording. Are you hearing something real, or just a reproduced coloration and artifact you like? We have no way of actually knowing.
I am not saying that EQ is automatically correct and therefore to be preferred no matter what. EQ might deliver better measurements with test tones. But, your mind and your imagination may take you elsewhere. That has happened before many times.
The interesting philosophical, psychoacoustic and technical question is how do we decide "what is sonically right"? Upon what, exactly, does our internal sonic gyroscope depend? I am not sure it is the right answer, but my answer, as a classical music listener, is to go to a lot of live concerts to inform my inner sense of what I should be expecting from reproduced playback in my room. For those who listen primarily to rock/pop, etc., whose recordings come primarily from a studio mix, I have no idea what to offer in terms of a way to develop more accurate expectations of recorded vs. live, which, to me, is the gold standard.