Having had the privilege of visiting studioes the past year, I think there are some misunderstandings with regards to both the circle of confusion, what neutral really means, and also what "the artist intended" or what "the engineer intended" really means.
Some points / facts, that have somewhat counter intuitive consequences:
1) Wildly inaccurate monitors like the Yamaha NS10 are still present in a vast number of studios. However, this doesn't necessarily mean that the mix is inaccurate, since engineers typically both know their monitors quite intimately, and also check how their mix translate to other systems on a regular basis. Thus, it is not impossible to produce a balanced mix on inaccurate monitors (though unecessarily difficult).
2) Building on the first point, these inaccurate monitors have been around for so long, many engineers think that inaccurate monitors is a good thing, as it helps them understand how the mix translates to "poor" systems. In practice, mixes that sound good on neutral monitors will typically also sound good on lesser systems.
3) It sometimes appears like people think the sound actually goes THROUGH the monitors, but that is of course not the case (and everyone understand that if they think about it). This means the monitors used in the control room, mixing room or mastering room obviously does not directly affect sound quality.
4) "What the artist / engineer intended" - In practice I think this "correct" reproduction of what the engineer or artist heard doesn't really exist except in the broadest terms. This past year I've been sitting next to several engineers listening through their own mixes through our speakers, going "oh." realizing that if they've had this transparency available when creating the mix, they would have done things differently. Also, with the exception of black metal and trash metal bands, most artists don't intentionally want to hurt your ears, so if you think the treble is excessive, or the bass too lean, your favorite artist won't think less of you if you adjust your setup.
5) Too thin or too lean is not accurate. Without exception, all engineers I've collaborated or presented sound systems to have preferred a room curve with 6-8dB rise in the bass (50hz-10khz), and felt that this is the closest to listening live. Personally I've also never been to a live / acoustic concert where the instruments have sounded hard or lacking of bass. Quite the contrary.
6) Building on the previous point: If you pain yourself through a too lean system that you don't really enjoy, but think to yourself "at least it is accurate" or "at least this is the way the artist intended it", you are probably wrong on both accounts.
7) An anechoically flat or close to flat system, will NOT be flat in most rooms with a reasonably listening distance.
8) Most home stereo systems are too lean in the 100-500hz area, even when the speakers are anechoically flat and thus "correct". So completely neutral speakers may not always be the answer for "accurate" in-room sound. This is somewhat counter intuitive, since we want all our other components (amps, sources) to be neutral.