This is brilliant, thank you!
It is the kind of information that I wish was given, rather than disparaging remarks on size/number/brand.
You need to have a measurement mic and a program like REW, though.
So, for most people thinking of buying their first sub, unless they have a clued-in friend volunteering to study their room, this is beyond their level.
Another thing you mention is "routinely getting to 100dB". Again, this requires knowledge. The Fletcher/Munson curve, and perhaps measuring the music / movies you like to listen to, at your comfort levels, taking into account your room, closeness of neighbors, living situation etc.
So, probably over the heads of people buying their first sub, or their first hi-fi system.
The overarching theme I'm getting, as I learn more, is that for subs and LF, unlike bookshelf speakers and audio electronics, you really need to measure or you're in the dark.
Perhaps the first sub you get serves as your gateway to learn more.