It is more than your HO, it is fact. I have not followed this thread, but it just came to my attention. It is clear that some participants have the right idea and others are still caught up in the never-ending dilemma caused by a belief that the steady-state room curve is a reliable indicator of potential sound quality. Put differently, an omni microphone is not equivalent to two ears and a brain. Things that may look alarming in "room curves" may be perceived by a binaural-hearing human as innocent, or even pleasant, spaciousness. It is the direct sound that dominates perceived timbre/sound quality, and years of double-blind testing indicates that smooth and flat is a good starting place. That is best determined in anechoic measurements of the loudspeakers or time-windowed FFTs in the room (above about 1kHz, typically). Below about 500 Hz bass can be narrow-band equalized - attenuating peaks, but ignoring narrow dips.
It is amusing that the ancient B&K target curve is still trotted out. Read the original paper and see the frequency responses of the grossly colored speakers used in their test - typical of the time (1972 I think), but nowadays nobody in this forum would give them house room - loudspeaker technology has advanced. That said, as a broad "average" curve, the tendency is correct.
The room curves associated with the best sounding conventional forward-firing loudspeakers are all downward tilted - why? Remember the curve is "an end result, not a target" and conventional loudspeakers are omnidirectional at very low frequencies, becoming more directional as frequency rises. So, if such loudspeakers are designed with desirable flat on-axis/listening window frequency responses (the first arriving "direct" sound) the total sound output decays with increasing frequency. Steady state room curves measure direct + all reflected sound so they must tilt downward - or, more accurately, rise towards the bass. Then there is air absorption, which adds more downward tilt above about 1 kHz. It is all understood and predictable. Also understood is that the detailed shape of a room curve depends on which loudspeaker is used. Even if designed to be flat on axis the off-axis performance is the dominant factor in determining the shape of the curve - equalization cannot, can not, compensate for uneven off-axis sound radiation. Only a better loudspeaker can do that. If you search my responses in this forum in recent years you will find more explanation. That is why we should be grateful to see useful technical measurements (called the spinorama) on this and other forums. Starting with a well designed loudspeaker will yield a smoothish, slightly tilted room curve at the listening position - except at low frequencies and that is a separate story, with multiple solutions. It is not a target curve, though, and adjusting flawed loudspeakers to imitate the shape will not yield equally good sound. Sorry.
Finally, there are the inevitable variations in spectral balance in recordings. This is why one needs tone controls, if one is fussy.
So, if you have found "perfection" in sound, good for you. Enjoy it. But, your room curve tells me nothing useful unless I can see a spinorama or equivalent anechoic data on the loudspeaker that produced it. Otherwise the forum discussions of what curve is right or wrong cannot end.