I'm sorry for not getting back to you sooner. I caught COVID and wanted to be sure my head is clear when I respond. We have a lot in common. It is a mental process to decouple from the audiophile dogma (which I admit was deeply rooted in).
I remember working as a technician for over a decade in multiple nice control rooms. Hearing numerous Genelec 1031s under perfect circumstances (of course, as well various Dynaudio's which were popular at that time) and, of course, the NS10s... Hearing levels of details on CDs I knew so well, I couldn't admit it was superior to all my "high-end" stuff at home. So I kept investing tons of money in amplifiers and passive speakers (from well-known boutique brands).
At a point, I got the opportunity to try out at home the (for that time revolutionary) Dynaudio Air 8 and Dynaudio Air 15 with the base-2 air Sub. I heard details, depth, and resolution I've never heard before, yet I convinced myself, no.. class D amps, digital... it just can't be right, and again went back to my boutique hi-fi.
I don't know how well objective and relevant audio memory is, but this was simply one of the best systems I've ever heard at home. I eventually got "cured", and when I still lived in Europe, I finally went for the Focal SM8 digital speakers with JL audio subs, which were also an eye-opener (not as good as the Dynaudio Air by memory, but it was the way to go).
Then I moved to China, decided to put audio as a second priority, and bought a relatively cost-efficient Magnepan 1.7s. This experience was pleasant (it had a solid midbass slam) and a wall of sound. But I always knew (felt, heard) something was off. Believe it or not, I "upgraded" to the more significant 20.7's which were massive in my room. They sounded muffled without DIRAC, and much was off, but the system came alive with DIRAC and the Benchmark AHB2 (great amplifiers!)
Unconsciously, I was trying to make the Magnepans sound like an excellent accurate studio monitor. The plan arose to take the Magnepans apart and make them fully DSP active with the Trinnov.
Then by miracle, in the mall here in Shenzhen, there was this very well-designed Genelec booth. Small but reasonable damped, and there they stood in white, the 8351B. I usually never believe or feel listening to speakers in any store or demo room; the acoustics will dictate the most significant part of how it will sound. But this time, I had to listen to them; they looked so classy and inviting.
What happened then equals your experience. I put on as the first track, "Dangerous" from Michael Jackson's album Dangerous. When the sampled snare hit, in such a profound, solid way from the center of the stage, so firmly in the mix, when I heard all the 90's synths in such a layered separation that I could even guess which sounds were factory presets, and which were tweaked, I was floored, goosebumps and in shock...
Back home, to the Magnepans, It didn't have any of this magic. It sounded typical "Hi-Fi" again, Polished and less revealing. For a few weeks, I keep coming back to the Genelec booth. I wanted to hear this.. wanna listen to that, and there was no escape. No matter what my thoughts are about the electronics inside an active speaker or that my Benchmark AHB2s are likely superior to any build amplifier, I heard and experienced something on the 8351B I always craved for and never had at home, that this all didn't matter anymore. I kept thinking about this sound from the Genelecs every day non-stop
There was no escape, I bought them, and they didn't disappoint. At home, I corrected with the Trinov Optimiser; it gave me all I heard in the store and exceeded it. After more than a year of living with them, they never stop to amaze me. I am still trying to understand how they present each mix. It's like you are playing detective, and every facet of the mix is laid out just in front of you. This is the end game for me from a company I truly believe in.