The attention you devote to audio gear vastly swamps that given by the average Taylor Swift fan, who can thoroughly enjoy her music on everything from crappy ear buds, or a laptop, or a cheap Amazon-bought turntable. Now, do you want to claim that you care more about music, or enjoy music more, or are more "all about the music" than a fervent Taylor Swift fan (or any of countless other examples of non-audiophile music lovers)?
I'm sure people can conflate "caring about music" with "caring about reproduction of music" at times.
I care about both, really. Of course, without music, caring about reproduction of same would be somewhat meaningless.
People will dismiss Taylor and her listeners of course, but that's often snobbery, or a generation gap, or just different tastes. Performers likely care about reproduction of their music, at least for their own live performances. They may be less prescriptive about how their listeners listen to recordings, which is pragmatic. Gatekeeping your fans' experience would only be relevant/sensible for a subset of artists/performers.