You're describing extreme cases that have nothing in common with normal domestic conditions (usually 1, 2 or 3 meters cables). Just every good enough quality optical cable will handle 192kHz just fine.
Do you have any measurements to share? My guess is that you haven't any...
This has been obtained with a regular, AmazonBasics toslink cable:
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Do you imply that a glass cable would have given better results? Or that you hearing is able to tell the difference below -140dB THD+N? Interesting.