But that would be a hump in the frequency response that I am not expecting from the 'ambient' acoustics of the room, so I also see that as a problem. What I am tentatively suggesting is that if my speakers are neutral (and yes, how that is defined is contentious), then whatever the room does after that will sound 'natural'. That doesn't mean that all rooms will sound good, but that always aiming for a flat response at the listener's position by means of electronic EQ is not my automatic choice.
Accepted, but my suggestion is that as we are adding our own room's acoustics to the recording, attempting to eliminate our room at the bass frequencies using electronic EQ may lead to strange psycho-acoustic results, no matter how good the measurements look.
Offhand, I do not know how your ear/brain can distinguish "natural ambient" room-induced bass peaks and valleys from those introduced by non-linear equipment, like speakers. A peak is a peak, no matter the source. A hump is just a peak or a succession of close together peaks with a different Q, hence broader frequency coverage. I do not know how you can subconsciously and effortlessly tune out the room induced ones as sounding "natural", whereas you likely would find those caused by equipment as unacceptable.
Yes, you can get used to the sound of your room, as I said, so that you "expect" certain aberrations, even coming to prefer them. That makes it familiar and habitual, not natural. But, to me it is like walking down the road and you get a little stone in your shoe. Yes, you can get used to it and keep on walking, trying to pay little attention to it, though you always know it is there. Or, you can stop for a minute, bend over, remove your shoe and take the stone out. Ahh, that's better.
It might just be terminology, but lot of research has confirmed that "flat" measured response is not preferred in rooms. Smooth, non-peaky, downward sloping with increasing frequency measured response is preferred. But, we are focused on the bass here, and it happens that is where room-induced abberations are the worst, by far, due to the inescapable physics and acoustics of room modal variations below the transition frequency. Many just use EQ in the bass for that reason. And, it is often tunable to taste via target curve editing in most EQ tools, with easy, direct near-instantaneous switching on or off for critical listening comparisons.
I hear no strange psychoacoustic results from EQ in my room, and ditto for all others who have visited the room or my friends with EQ in their rooms. To me, that sounds more "natural", as in closer to the sound of live music. All the listening studies I have seen with properly done EQ confirm the same thing. But, it is certainly possible for audiophiles to screw up the EQ calibration, as more than a few have anecdotally, leading them to the conclusion that the EQ, not them, is to blame. And, of course, some EQ tools and techniques are better than others. Some older ones in AVRs, particularly, were not very good.
What I hear consistently with EQ in my system and in my friends' rooms is smooth, well integrated bass that is "quick" with no noticeable distortion, hangover or boominess and with excellent deep bass extension. But, you, of course are perfectly entitled to prefer whatever you like, as are we all. Your beliefs, rationalizations and justifications for your preference are unnecessary, and they are, of course, unfounded.
It is easy to exclaim, "I hear things I did not hear before" with peaky, non-linear bass behavior, as opposed to smooth, non-peaky bass. Yes, but it is not there in the recording when the playback system is not linear. It all depends on what you like.