I may be drinking the MTB industry koolaid and my personal experience is definitely anecdotal, but I can't shake off the impression that this discussion about carbon ignores the advancements made in the industry in the last dozen or so years.
Check out these 2 videos:
2017:
2023:
What do you think about how carbon frames react to stress in each video?
@thewas any chance you can ask your colleague?
By the way the guy in 2nd video is Greg Minnaar, one of the most successful downhill riders in the history of the sport. Funnily enough, see what he managed to do to a carbon bike:
I guess one might ask a question - how often will I ride at such high speeds, go over the bars and hit a metal post?
My anecdotal experience / evidence - I've been riding a 2016 Santa Cruz Nomad with a carbon frame, handlebars, cranks and rims, in a substantially irresponsible manner. Too fast, hitting too many ruts and rocks, just general belligerence because the bike loves to go fast downhill, I'm heavy and lack skills, and I love to drive a rollercoaster. I've only cracked a rear rim once and the way it happened, I noticed it after I finished my ride: