I just now came across this post on an SL support forum regarding SHD (https://oplug-support.org/viewtopic.php?f=33&t=4721#p43024):
"One characteristic of note (for those with HT systems) is the unit has a minimum 24mS latency (associated with the Dirac Live functions) that can't be bypassed. (Even with the Dirac Live disabled.)
This might also be an issue if adding a separate path for subwoofer(s) since now you have a built-in 20+ foot delay."
That should effectively quell anyone thinking miniDSP does not know anything about target markets by not having incorporated HT bypass (think not only sub, but surrounds too).
I'll stick with a $100 one-time investment (regardless which stereo and multichannel preamps are used), and a 2-3 meter walk to get off the couch for a simple switch operation between music and HT maybe once or twice per session/day . You'll have to get up more often for a new drink, and then having to dispense that same drink later anyhow.
I have now solved this by making DIY XRL 2 -> 1 cables with a tiny 12v relay build into the XLR connector (same relay used for channel mute inside the SHD)
The 12v is switched by my AVR