I don't quite agree. I absolutely fuss over equipment... when I first get it. I fuss over it when it's new to my system in order to dial in the performance Ifor example, messing with speaker placement, taking mic measurements, and applying room correction EQ), familiarize myself with the features, and so on. But my aim is "set it and forget it," get it to a point where it's easy to use and sounds right, and from then on all I want to mess with are the buttons on the remote control that let me switch sources and select tracks (and turn up the volume.
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I think my preference is the norm among people who enjoy listening to music - but I'm aware my preference is very much not the norm among the smaller group of music lovers who self-identify as audiophiles (which I do myself). It's why I also like my equipment to be minimalist in design, black in color (even my speakers), and with minimal, not overly bright displays. I doin't want to look at silver faces or analogue VU meters, and I don't need my speakers to look like fine wood furniture. I want it to blend into the background visually. if I want to look at something interesting while listening, I'll put art on the front wall of the room.
To each their own of course - and while I don't like constantly fussing or tinkering, I
do certainly enjoy talking about it all at places like this. In fact, come to think of it, I even contributed a photo of a turntable way back in post #61 in this very thread, nearly two years ago.