Doesn't occur in my household. Each significant purchase is case by case. There are no compromises due to monetary concerns. I just bought a $300 chef's knife. There will be zero effect on our household spending. A pet had $5700 in surgery two weeks ago. Check written.
If someone can't afford a hobby there are others less expensive.
I am not saying there is anything wrong with giving advice. Advice can be very helpful. I've taken in that given here. Will I act on it? Not without validation. Popularity doesn't make true. ASR and like forums are great jumping off points. Good "advice".
I accept and act on advice from an auto service manager I deal with. Very smart guy. I accept it because his knowledge has been proven in real life. Not because he has a bunch groupies. It's all about whether it's true.
A purchase of an amplifier i made began based on advice posted on ASR. Research followed. Only then was the unit ordered.
We can make things as complicated as we want. And boy do some like to. In the end all the advice, suggestions and expert opinions in the world have to pass through the ear of the beholder. What you and I like are going to be different. Perceived differently. Prefered differently. Anything belief to the contrary is just so much verbiage.
Music is subjective. Some call Rock noise. Others can't stand the twang of country. I think it's rather arrogant to tell someone what they like and how or why is somehow wrong because of how they are listening. They aren't hearing it correctly. They are being fooled. There is something wrong with their ears. It's snobbish.
How much listening is really critical? Rock, Metal, Pop is cranked. Some bands purposely add distortion. The Beatles did it.
As I said some posts up I'd treasure having a conductor or seasoned audio engineer school me on critical listening. But somehow I feel he would say "You hear what you want to hear".
Maybe it's no more complicated than that. I'll pass on the kool-aid.
Good discussion. I do appreciate your thoughts.