I have the R3 metas now... Liking what I hear so far but I need to spend more time giving them my full attention (I'm in the middle of moving in). Much better tonal balance.You cannot give absolute answers to this, but Toole's research showed that as long as the off axis response was even with on axis (mainly in the horizontal axis) a wide pattern control is preferred by most people (that includes trained listeners)
Contrary to the belief of many, if the off axis specra matches on axis, sound is preferred with many reflection points/shapes around the speakers. I can't remember if he came to a conclusion over what happens in the '3ft' reflection window (IE where the delay between the fundamental and reflection is close enough in time to be heard as one sound)
Muad:
When using a wide pattern speaker with walls/surfaces close by, consider adding further tilt to the treble response as the brain hears a somewhat 'averaged' SPL with close surfaces. This is why many of the revel flagship speakers have treble balance controls.
Interestingly, I find the R3s good, but the METAs much better.
But yeah, I had the old r3s and bmr in a large room, where the sidewalls were far away from the speakers on the left, and non existent on the right, but I still found them a little top heavy. I figured that if the speakers dispersion is extremely wide, then the estimated in room response will have less of a tilt (first reflections arrive close to the on axis arrival). Overall it just sounded like the whole room was overloaded with treble. That was my working explanation for what I was hearing re: old treble happy recordings.
I tried treating first reflections with couch cushions etc, but it changed nothing