I am not much for these virtualization approaches. If this is what the OP wants though, then more power to ya, sir. Because it looks like there are quite a few different options to try.
I'd be curious to hear some opinions from some owners of good in-room systems and speakers though re which type and models of standard wired headphones they think do the best job of capturing the same feel, sound, response and so forth as their in-room setups. By "type" I mean closed, open, dynamic, planar, e-stat, etc..
Intuitively, I'm inclined to think that open dynamic headphones that use some kind of surround/free-edge driver approach might be the closest, and potentially deliver the best slam, punch, or what Resolve now refers to as "macro-contrasts". Alot of enthusiasts seem to like the planar magnetics though, especially some models by HiFiMan and a few other companies.