Reddit is not a single, monolithic community. Rather, every subreddit has its own character.I wonder if I already am involved there? I have posted I am pretty sure, but I spend so little time on Reddit. If I remember correctly, one of the things somebody needs to accept about Reddit is the threads can and do get very personal when people don't agree. Or maybe I am not remembering correctly. In any case maybe I need to spend a little more time there and see how things go there.
r/headphones has much more debate than r/headphoneadvice, and it does get a lot more contentious.