Hey, thank you all for your suggestions.
I am a mac user - is there a equalizer software that I can use, that runs in the "background" and applies my changes systemwide? I listen to music mostly with spotify.
Alternatively if this is not possible - is there an affordable dac/amp with internal eq feature that I could use and that also may be a slight upgrade to the Audioquest Dragonfly? I know that the RME ADI 2 DAC can do that. Unfortunately I did not use it when I had it back then a few years ago.
And wow, thanks for the in ear suggestions. I did not know that. I will look into it, but it is not an alternative for home use, as I want to hear what's going on, especially when I am home alone.
Edit: I would also like to write a bit more about the headphones yesterday compared to my HD650.
The Hifiman Arya sounded great at first with classical, soundtrack and film music - more spacious and precise, but I found that it's a but too harsh with a treble spike and that pianos for example sounded a bit too brilliant. Also it wasn't as good with pop, rock, metal, indie and so on, cymbals for example were too promiment. Bass response and comfort were great though.
The Dan Clark Audio Noire 2 had a better overall tonal balance. Just a tiny bit too bright, although I didn't try the more dense filters that could have helped. They did nothing wrong and sounded very inoffensive, but also a bit - boring? Polite? Especially the base response was lacking "punch" compared to all other headphones. I wasn't really able to comment on the comfort, because the headband was very loose and didn't stay in position. The ear pads were a bit squished.
The Focal Clear MG was more in your face, engaging and "fun" with a very punchy base. I found the mid base a bit too much in the long run. I tested the sub bass with the track that caused problems in amirms review (un espejo el cielo) and listened way over my normal listening level and didn't notice any clipping. I am a low level listener in general. Overall I found it a bit too muffled/warm overall and it didn't sound as natural as the HD650.
Listening to the HD 650 right now and very happy with the sound.