well as having made an outboard crossover for my speakers I can say that I heard the differences between capacitors. of course they weren’t huge, but they were audible. I wish I didn’t. But they were there.
Did you measure the caps (capacitance and esr) to make sure you were comparing equivalent parts? Just differences in tolerance for the same capacitor (brand, value) can mean more than a 10% difference in capacitance, which could be audible in some circumstances. That doesn't mean there's anything magical about certain brands.