In terms of pure sound quality, the Wireless II should always beat the Meta. Unless its DACs are incredibly deficient, anything you lose by not using your favourite external DAC (or even adding a whole ADC+DAC stage) should pale into insignificance compared to the benefit of the digital crossover and independent drive of the tweeter and woofer, plus the intelligent DSP bass control. Those are real, measurable benefits with audible impact, whereas DAC differences are like amplifier differences - debatable whether they're perceptable as long as they're working well enough.
But I went with the Meta too, for price+integration reasons. I'm using 7 of them in a 7.1 setup, and there's no way to do that with the Wireless II. Even if it was possible, it's a big price increase when I already have amplification, I'm wary of the lifetime of all the digital bits including support app, and it's easier to get a speaker wire to my locations than a power connection. Plus the visual clutter of the IR receiver + controls is annoying - the passives are so much tidier. And the blue's so pretty!
I'm probably not an audiophile either, cos I don't complain enough, and I don't get the upgrade bug often. This is only my second set of speakers - they replaced a set of original KEF KHT2005 eggs from 2000(?). The Metas fulfil the same criteria that had me choose those long ago - not too big, pretty, coaxial, neutral, well-engineered, high-performing for the price point, and every speaker identical.
Main complaint isn't the speakers - it's that the matching S2 stands are a bit short, particularly for the surround positions. I liked the taller KHT2005 stands. But again, the looks plus practicality of the bolt mounting overweighed finding alternatives. Not enough of an audiophile, clearly.