You've previously said you have expertise in this area, but I find a few things you said strange.
Small rooms will never achieve a diffuse field, the only type of sound field in which RT60 calculations are valid. This is one of the difficulties in correct acoustic treatment, since a diffuse field assumes that acoustic energy is the same in every direction, while small rooms have significant modal activity even in the midrange. Part of the same issue is specifying the ratio of direct-to-reflected sound, which is approximate at best, not at all precise enough to have manufacturers define a spec based on it.