Well I have already taken care of by far the biggest dispersion factor of all: I specified three-way, not two. And for even better performance we could go four-way.Agree that DSP is a huge help when it comes to crossovers.
But unless you have a Spin-o-rama rig at home you're well short of being able to accurately measure dispersion and also well short of what the best engineered commercial designs offer.
A Spin-o-Rama seems like a very quaint, old fashioned solution to a problem that may, anyway, not be as crucial as people have been led to believe. If we are serious about this sort of thing, we would be simulating the whole thing in software and evolving it using genetic algorithms - as long as we knew what 'target' we were aiming for. But I'll bet that the results wouldn't sound as drastically different as you expect.
Nothing to stop anyone from doing the Kii/Beolab multiple drivers thing, either.
By far the biggest factors in the home constructor's favour are the freedom to eschew 'fashion', and to insist on things like phase/time alignment and the use of large sealed woofers.