So you tried adding a subwoofer and still found them too bright?
They you really do need a measurement microphone, perhaps there's something strange going on with yours.
Here are my measurements:
MR4 were in Monitor mode, with bass and treble knobs set to 0.
The subwoofer has a built-in high-pass-filter set to 80 Hz.
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After some time I found the bass level to be too high so I reduced it by few dB but did not re-measure.
As you can see, I have major issues: a dip at 100 Hz & 150 Hz, some problems between 200 Hz and 1 kHz that are perhaps caused by room reflections and asymmetry.
My left and right speakers differ in 3 - 4 kHz region, where both are elevated but the left one is flat from 3 kHz to 3.5 kHz. Without anechoic, or quasi-anechoic measurements (which you can do yourself with a lot of dedication:
see this thread) I can't say if it's the speakers or the room. So I'm not sure if it's worth equalizing it.
Above 4 kHz the treble measures flat-ish, and in a near-field setup that is acceptable but further away it would sound bright.
One last thing you can do is to actually try to find the offending frequencies.
Use Peace or another EQ application where you can easily adjust filters and create a filter with Q = 1.4, boost by 6 dB or so and move it across frequencies.
You should be able to notice where the sounds that irritate you get boosted, and from there you can experiment with cutting that band of frequencies.
As another check, you could use a tone generator where you can easily adjust frequency on-the-fly and validate whether or not your filter makes the transition smoother around the problematic band.
Toggling the filter on-off blindly while playing music or pink noise is also a good way of validating your filter - toggle back and forth without looking, until you arrive at the sound that you prefer. Then, check if it's with or without your filter.
Then, you can move on to another problematic band.
I myself do not equalize these after some experimentation. I couldn't arrive at a sound that would be substantially better and the simplicity of not having to use EQ won over my lazyness

It's good enough for me for occasional use, and most of the times I use headphones.