This way of connecting RCA to XLR allows the XLR input to sense the reference of the signal, so that is the right way to do it. What could have a spectacularly detrimental effect on bass it that one of the cables connects pin 2 to the screen instead of pin 3. I have also seen RCA-XLR cables with pin 3 left floating...I wonder whether shorting the (3) pins of the left and right inputs of the boXem could have that effect, because that’s what you’re doing when using RCA-to-XLR cables. The screen (cold) contacts of the left and right RCA pre-out sockets are almost certainly connected on the Buchardt side.