I’d say the right move is to call them a sanctimonious narrow minded t**t that will never see an any of your money…and leave, eventually then they may change their ways!
in some ways shows are somewhat hamstrung, they need to keep things reasonable mainstream so as not to put off the casual punter (much Rap is avoided for language for example). I do hear plenty of ‘modern’ female vocals at at these things (Lana Del Ray etc). A few months ago Orchard Audio shared there demo playlist here and it’s a great selection of some fairly recent artists mixed with older stuff, ok dominated by femail vocals But well worth a listen for those with Qobuz.
i hope Orchard don’t mind me posting a link again here:
open.qobuz.com