I agree with your generalization, but I think we are on the wrong forum for this kind of conclusion. Most people on this forum should be listening on headphone, not speakers.
there are no perfect forums.
they keep deleting all my threads at prosoundweb because i'm not in their industry. they don't care that all my threads are about prosound gear - they know i will be using it at home and delete them. they only want discussions of using gear in prosound settings.
their discussions look like this " stupid powersoft why are the amps so long ? i don't have any boxes that long to send them in for service " ...
unless the discussion you want to start is along these lines they delete it ...
over at speakerplans they told me that nobody needs more bass than two 15" subwoofers ...
over at AVS they told me i need at least four 24" subwoofers, preferably more ... one guy over there who is actually cool has 29 subwoofers and about 50 kilowatts of amps ...
meanwhile at DIYaudio a guy was telling me his system is perfect ... it was a 3" fullrange.
everywhere you go you will be told you are wrong because you are not doing it the way they are doing it over there ...
everybody wants you to convert to their religion ...
i gave up trying to find people with common sense ...