I also much prefer a moderately absorptive room.
What's your definition of "moderately absorptive?"
(Are there quantifiable units of measurement for the "liveness" of a room? Decay times, etc?)
I guess it depends on how we define "moderately absorptive" but I don't think I can imagine anything less than "moderately absorptive" being very enjoyable. My personal definition would be a typical residential room with padded furniture, shelves, etc.
I wouldn't imagine many speakers sounding good in a room consisting primarily of hard, reflective surfaces. Case in point, I heard an iteration of this "million dollar" system at Capital Audiofest this year. The sound did not impress, and others I talked to agreed with me. Sounded merely like the worlds okayest PA system to me. Even Herb Reichert gave it the faint (almost backhanded) praise.
My impression was that the gear itself was stellar but the room itself was not great. Big reflective glass walls/doors right behind the seating area. Essentially just a big bare conference/showroom at a hotel. The room problems were 100% understandable, because it's not like you can customize the room for acoustics for a brief three-day expo. I don't blame the exhibitors.