That idea of collecting records just to collect them (not even listen to them) just doesn't make contact with my brain. But then I guess I don't have the temperament of a collector that way. The only thing I can remember collecting in the sense of seeking out items known for their value was when I had a big comic collection when I was young. Spiderman 1 up to 300 and all that (if only I'd known how valuable they would become).
But even then, I read them.
When I collected vinyl I also played it, but a lot about collecting was social conditioning done to people who were already slightly weird. I also see it now in one of my friends, who used to be a dj and built up a massive collection of one genre of records that he would play at dj gigs. Then he sold them, and now he has started to buy records again, without ever opening them, just to collect them.
The social conditioning is this: Records are cool; CDs are for losers. And who wants to be a loser?
But what is even more cool than having records is having the right records in the right editions in the right conditions. That's how collecting was for me. I didn't buy audiophile MFSL or Classic Records reissues, but original issues from the 60s and 70s. Sometimes I would spend €200 on one record, although, luckily, that didn't happen so often.
I would especially know this one dealer who would show me records he had found, often for pennies, or at least reliatively cheap, and then he would tell me with a big grin on his face how much he planned to sell them for. And when I asked the guy standing next to him at a record fair about a specific record he had for sale, this grinning seller came up to us and said "I would aim for the UK edition of that one".
It was all about the right records, in the right editions, in the right conditions if you wanted to be cool. You gained more cred from other collectors if you had a collection of 500 good albums and 500 boring but high-priced albums, than if you had a collection of 1000 average priced albums where you liked the music on all of them.
About collecting in particular: We have to remember that men tend to be more obsessive than women, and men are more interested in things and systems than people compared to women, and men are also more competitive and hierarchical. So it's no wonder we see so many men ending up competing about who can be the most obsessive and hierarchical about high-priced physical objects, whether it's records, comic books, or speaker cables.
I liked what a record seller said to me once: "People just like to collect. All the reasons they then give you for why they collect are only attempts at justifying the collecting habits they already had in the first place".
Buying makes you happy.