There seems to be a bit of a clash of cultures here, between advice seekers (not just the OP here, this problem also pops up in other threads) and 'advice givers'. I don't remember seeing this in other online fora I've participated in (cars, motorcycles, watches), or at least not to this extent. Advice seekers want their very specific question answered, whereas advice givers (myself included) here seem all too eager to give 'holistic' advice, including telling the advice seeker what his/her real problems are... Just an observation.