thanks, the difference here is that my "crazy" has much of the neighborhood on her side, she's fooled a lot of people.. an example of her narrative having effect: she put up a camera in her front yard to catch me "harassing" her(nobody minds that), including me) , but i was filming her with a phone from my own front yard *after* the restraining order was in effect and i was admonished by a neighbor to "go home".. it was comical and pathetic at once... our education system can't be this bad , but yet it is... feelings vs 1st amendment .. they seem to think feelings are more important...