So, I don't worship at the stereo shrine of playback. Its a bit weird really the way some of it is mixed and mastered.
I came to terms of the limitations of stereo in my twenties, when I had tons of time to play with electronics and audio and sit around in all kinds of folks rooms listening to all kinds of speakers and electronics and source material. Those were the days my friend, when a young man was able to put together a pretty decent system for a couple of months pay.
Everybody is turned on by different things in this hobby and for some obsession. Knowledge, like what we have on this forum, frees you from chasing your tail and audio myths and focusing on getting the most from your system that is compatible with actual audible results.
In reality there is so much IMD distortion in our playback its a wonder it sounds as good as it does to us. This IMD is one of the key reasons (outside of linear distortions such as FR etc) things sound different. I call this harmonic spray. It varies with program material amount of tones, it varies with amplitude of signals, its some crazy stuff.
What is weird, is sometimes it (IMD) helps you hear things better, other times it makes things sound worse. Take the seventh harmonic, one of the more nasty odd harmonics, it does not sound good. However, the third harmonic (think reel to reel) can give some edge to the sound, kind of tighten it up some. Second harmonic does not do much of anything to perceived sound in most gear, just a bit of silk if the evens get too high.
Given my experience of these things, what I look for from a system is that it be able to resolve the most perceived detail, longest tails from cymbals, quietest quiet times, and to do these thing the IMD must be low, and that suggests the most linear system you can put together. But, if you want some flesh on your music, some may say musicality, you might want that SET sound, the dynamic chorus effect is what I call it. You might want that LP sound, with all its inter-channel phasiness and selective crosstalk with signal strength and low rumblings which harken to the echo sounds in an actual room or hall, you know that sound of being in a large auditorium, the LF sounds, they make me want to go to sleep, thank goodness they are only minor levels on LP or LP would have put me to sleep..ahhhahahah
So, put me down for a linear playback system, but also put me down for someone who damn well chooses what he wants to hear or how he wants to hear it, and satisfying our ears preference is ok, just like its ok to drink alcohol, if you are in control, and not the alcohol or the audio-Imagineering, then make your self happy.
Disclaimer, not afraid to use tone controls, audio enhancers of all kinds, as add ins, when the mood suits me, but I want as clean a signal path I can get before I start playing as the mix and master engineer.