Stereo audio reproduction of music is an illusion, and DSP furthers the illusion. I have no problem with that. I friggin' embrace it and always have. And the illusion today is better than when I became an audiophile in the 1970s. And, hey, reality often sucks. I am happy to turn on my music, especially if the sound is basically transparent, and enjoy the grand illusion.
Coleridge discussed the "suspension of disbelief." I am happy to suspend. I saw Dune II at IMAX over the weekend. 3/4 of the stuff in the movie must be CGI but it looks damn real to me and was enjoyable to watch for 2 hours and 40 minutes. A mess of 0s ad 1s looked marvelous.
I know Patricia Barber is not playing with her band in my living room, or in my head via HPs, but I am happy to listen as if it were all real. And at times it does sound that way. Without that would I rather listen to nothing, and instead contemplate the fact I am an insignificant amalgam of carbon-based cells residing on a small sphere hurtling through the universe in a pin-wheel shaped galaxy? Give me the music. And while I am at it give it to me in a transparent form.