These devices are inherently not made to last, the business model is that you change them every couple of years as new features become available. This year is 8K, next year will be 16K or whatever so new tv, new avr. It's amusing that while the 8K thing happens we don't yet have a full lineup of TV 4K channels (In Europe most of us subscribe to SKY which offering is limited to a few 4K movies, football and Formula 1, most of the stuff is still HD).
Planed obsolescence is the sales strategy of the day, the AVR industry might be one of the worst offenders but they are just a symptom.
And your "this year is 8K" might be too optimistic. Although it was marketed everywhere as 8K-10K, HDMI 2.1 was never supposed to be an 8K standard, just the first HDMI to allow full quality 4K. See this
video bitrate table, the HDMI 2.1 max speed of 48Gbps is basically maxed-out-4K (in practice, HDMI 2.1 cannot even do max-4K because a +50Gbps cable/chip is needed to get proper 48Gbps).
What we are truly getting in 2020 is even worse: a truncated HDMI 2.1 at 40Gbps. Only the minimum 8K variant (32Gbps) is practically possible. This seems to be the industry mantra nowadays: implement the minimum/cheapest possible technical solution so that marketing can start shouting "features, features". (not saying that 'minimum' 8K is bad, just that the diff between marketing and reality is way too big)
Anyway, we will 'get' HDMI 3.0 or whatever-next-thing pretty soon. Hdmi 2.1 may be forgotten quite fast and may never be adopted on a large scale.