no worries, i respect your opinion on the matter. my opinion is that all of what you are talking about is likely bypassed when using the RCA-in. anyway, i dont have the speakers anymore to provide some tests and measurements, nor did i ever have a working amp. so i'd have to rely on someone willing to give it a shot. until then, you hold your opinion, i hold mine. its ok. you are welcome to provide some measurements and proof of yours and i'd be happy to change mine
congrats bud, glad i could help
as for the crossover freq, if you have a mic and rew, run a sweep with just the upper array connection, it should be fairly obvious when it rolls off. or even use your phone with an SPL app. again only the upper array, play 200hz, note the reading, play 190hz, note...etc all the way down to like 80hz. while it may not be accurate in terms of actual SPL, it will be relative to one another, so it will work just fine for this use case. you'll then be able to see where it rolls off. when you've reached a -3 to -5db, should give you a good enough indicator what the crossover point should be
once you set it, you can then flip the phase back and forth and see which one gives you the better reading on the mic as well