I’m struggling to see how this could happen in this instance. Sighted, the differences seemed obvious. Sighted and level matched (by ear), it was a bit harder but they still seemed obvious. Unsighted, I couldn’t tell them apart.
The only thing that changed was my friend didn’t tell me which dac was playing.
All it takes for a false negative in this case is 1) there in fact
was an audible difference that you failed to perceive (and under proper conditions
would have perceived), but, 2) for some reason (time spent listening, distraction, any number of things, really) you didn't think you heard a difference.
I don't think this is what happened. I think your original conclusion is most likely true. My only point (which wasn't a point, more a humorous quibble) is that just as tests can yield false positives, they can also yield false negatives. In tests with more at stake and larger sample sizes, such as pharmaceutical testing, either one can prove very important. But it wasn't meant to be a serious comment.