Great thanks for advice! Swapped pads, positioned correctly. Pads are swapping soo easy. My phones became as comfortable as the pair I initially returned to Thomann a month ago )))The pads are angled and are thicker at the back than the front. You may need to remove and rotate one of your pads by 180 degrees.
*edit* Actually, i'm not sure that come angled, mine are now after 3 years of use! I have the <2021 pads, so I think the front part of the pads has compressed more than the back. Comparison of older vs newer pads here: https://www.audiosciencereview.com/forum/index.php?threads/new-sennheiser-pads-measured.24845/
Video showing how to remove and replace the ear pads here...
Such comfortable phones, such good sound. Initially they seemed too dark, but after equalising treble I understood that I need equaliser really rarely. And can easily live without equalisation at all.