You sound like you do not have much experience with Pentaconn. When I first heard about it I also was like 'why do they have to introduce another adapter format, again'. UntiI I got some technical insight and practical experience with it, and now I am a glowing fan and don''t want to see these antique oversized XLR 4-poles on my headphone cables anymore!
Some background: the 4.4 mm plug is not a completely new design but based on studio standard for patchbays, called Bantam. Quote:
Connectors with a diameter of 4.4mm are popularly known as Bantam-type. They can also be found mainly in professional studio equipment. Interestingly, this type of a connector is still in common use, despite its size. This can be illustrated by the fact that in 2015, a Japanese company Nippon DICS developed a five-pin standard called Pentaconn, based on a 4.4 mm jack. The Pentaconn has been received quite warmly in the industry and has since found use in many musical devices.
The Pentaconn version has more poles to enable balanced with separate ground, so you get tip, 3 rings and sleeve. The matching socket has a feature I wish bigger TRS would have: it makes contact not only on top but also on bottom, thus halfing the contact resistance. It also makes the whole plug and unplug process very stable and rigid. It doesn't feel cheap or loose to use this connector.
Finally the original Pentaconn socket has insert detection, which is a top priority for our units (headphone plugged detection, here automatic activation of balanced mode). Guess what no XLR-4 pole socket on the market has - exactly...
To not leave out the negatives: The Pentaconn connector is terrible for self-soldering, clearly made for machine moulding. That's not a big deal anymore, we have been flooded with replacement cables and adapters of all kinds for Pentaconn, so I avoided soldering so far. My favourite adapter is this one, TRS male to Pentaconn female:
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It saves me to change the headphone cable when using the phones with 'normal' unbalanced outputs. And is of very high quality with zero drop-outs or contact issues so far (got three of them already). Seriously: XLR-4 pole is dead. And it won't come back.