Where are these set? By who? Who chose the 79dB for instance? Where is it written?
Well, this leads on to something I was about to post but decided against it... so here goes:
Mixing levels such as 79 are sometimes, but not always, prescribed in the delivery spec for us. Netflix, for example, in their 4th bullet point:
Original Language Mix for Streaming and Archive The Dolby Atmos® Original Language Home Mix must meet the following requirements: At a minimum, must be mixed in a 7.1.4 room. Dolby Certification i...
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But if i had a key point to get across regarding home ent "calibration" it would be that we work to loudness spec these days, not a reference level; typically -24LKFS with peak at -2dBTP (with some variation on that theme depending who's distributing it).
The monitoring gain we use is chosen by the mixer to help them achieve that spec required by "the client" while being comfortable with the volume levels and dynamics.
So loudness spec comes first, chosen monitoring level, while often hovering around 79 if you want to give it a number to equate it to Dolby spec, is more to do with mixer preference than any kind of prescribed "reference".
You could basically ignore the whole "79dB", "85dB" thing and just set the amps at any old level, start mixing and go "oh I'm 7dB below spec, I'll turn the monitor down 7dB, trim my master fader up by 7 and crack on".
The whole "85, 79 etc" is largely irrelevant for home ent as the end result of a mix is normalised. We still use it so that (a) we have repeatability between studios and (b) we work in the right ballpark from the get-go, unlike the scenario I described in the paragraph above where you could end up in a bit of a mess with your dynamics processors.