I suggest to visit an (ear) doctor.
A HD800S simply cannot 'demolish' hearing like that.
I suspect at the same time you bought/tried the HD800 something may have happened with your hearing that causes this effect.
Viral infection, blocked Eustachian tube or something else that causes fatigue.
There is nothing in the HD800S response (nor it being very open so unable to add some atmospheric pressure at all) which might happen with DT770 (with pleather pads) as the mount Beyer treble peak is higher than that of the HD800S.
Neither is. I always was had a very elevated sense of hearing, and certain frequencies make my ears flatter.
Even, if I speak and accidentally hit a harsh tone.
Especially sibilances, echo, reflections are problematic.
I simply cannot communicate in the hallway / stairwell ... wherever is much echo.
@amirm talks about phase shift, and that that for instance is not even absent in headphones
https://www.audiosciencereview.com/...se-distortion-shift-matter-in-audio-no.24026/
And about pressure: I am certain that you misunderstand what was meant with it.
If you travel with the train and drive through a tunnel, you can feel pressure.
However, when hearing, this type of pressure is very subtle.
When I was 5 years old, I loved to listen to classical recordings through a portable radio.
It had a LOUDNESS button. Pressing it yielded similar responses to me of feeling pressure.
That said, with headphones, a closer description of it can be made.
You are well aware that your headphone can reproduce sounds that normally only happen without headphones, right?
If you are blocking your ear canal with a finger, if you yawn, and so on.
Now if that ear canal / that opening is not blocked but you can still hear / feel that, similar as to phantom/ghost touch, that's something we need to consider.
We do in fact, feel some frequencies instead of hearing them.
I do remember a diagram of a well-known headphone maker which did aim to direct the sounds more closely to the ear canal.
"In air, sound pressure can be measured using a
microphone, and in water with a
hydrophone."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sound_pressure which can be measured with a microphone
By the way, thats also the reason I do not use noise-cancelling headphones, as I feel pressure.
Noise cancelling does not make any pressure in your ears, or rather they make the same amount of pressure normal headphones do. When you enable noise cancelling, it sounds very much like your ears need to pop, because when your ears need to pop everything goes quieter, so your brain thinks "I have heard this before, my ears need to pop" but it is mistaken.
I have never heard of the effect happening after the headphones are removed though. One side effect of TMJ is the muscles surrounding the ear canal swelling and making your ability to hear reduced. I am definitely not an ear doctor but that would be where my money goes.
I am claiming that, like other healthy individuals, we can feel that, and it can be due to various factors.
When listening to HD 800 S, my ear did pop a lot - as per above description. Drinking something then make them unpop, but it's just inconvenient
By the way, the fatigue still partially persists.