- FR measured by a rig doesn't equal to what you actual hear, different rig or pinna can give pretty different result
- There is no absolute standard of FR for HP/IEMs, every people have different HRTF (check debates in this thread LOL)
- FR may be everything your eardrum perceived, but it's not everything your ear/body perceived
I agree about the first two but I'm not sure what you mean by the third. Can you clarify?
The only factors that affect the
sound quality of headphones and IEMs are frequency response, distortion, and impedance/how difficult they are to drive (there are other relevant factors when considering whether you like or would purchase a set of headphones, such as aesthetics, build quality, and comfort). But where some people get lost in the weeds is assuming that the Harman curve = good, and that everyone will like the Harman curve. The Harman curve is based on an average measurement of preferences for multiple listeners, but each person has slightly different personal preferences, and each person will actually hear the frequency response of a given headphone or IEM slightly differently based on their own unique biology - the shape of their head, inner ear, etc.
Where the Harman curve is very useful is that it gives us a standard measurement by which to compare different headphones, and a standard point of reference for what
most people,
most of the time, are going to find pleasing. Personally, after listening to a few IEMs that closely track the curve, I find I like a little more midrange energy and a little less in the 5-8kHz range - but now that I know this, I can read those FR graphs and make a determination about whether a headphone is likely to sound good to me, and that's extremely useful.
To the OP's original issues with Hifiman, I have two thoughts:
1. I don't think it's necessary to ever spend $2k+ on a headphone or IEM to get either an "objectively" accurate pair, or a pair that deviates from accurate to be pleasing to you.
2. Hifiman are a company that markets products to audiophiles and headphone enthusiasts, a demographic that is notorious for having more money than sense. I don't blame them for offering some headphones and IEMs to that segment of the market - they're trying to make money.