I think what you might be hearing is the (in my opinion and also apparently Crinacle's) exaggerated 1.5 kHz region baked into both the Harman IE target and the Etymotic target. I hear that slightly excessive honk (some might say shout, but it's more a honk than the 2.5 kHz-ish shout to my ears) in my Etymotic ER-2XR and all the Moondrops I've tried except the Crescent - which notably, does not have that same 1.5 kHz prominence.
You'll notice that Crinacle's own target (IEF target) is more subdued in that 1.5 kHz range.
I agree. I read the measurement graph before buying Starfield/Aria but not attentively enough to be aware of this a bit elevated 1k-2k range.
With experience I can feel it's not to my taste.
I find the work around Harman target more and more interesting. After some tests I know now that anything with a peak above Harman curve is a no.
Among the headphones measured by Amir, I tried the HD560s, very fatiguing upper mids peak, Philips X2HR, big peak at 5k, coloration like metallic sound, ATH-M50x, sibilances, peak around 4k...
As same as the HD6xx, fatiguing (by the way I don't believe HD6xx are the same headphones as the HD650. I had 650 in the past, no memories of harsh sound. Rtings measured the HD6xx/HD650 differently and the HD6xx measurements shows peaks.)
I daily use the HD58X jubilee, no peaks, no fatigue, no excessive coloration spotted. The K371 is a bit fatiguing in the treble with little 8k peak but globally pleasant, only the exaggerated 4k dip is too important (lacks presence).
Apart from this aside on headphones, I went back to the M silicon tips for Aria. In my ears it's still the best compromise, the S ones reduce a bit the elevated mids but it lacks something elsewhere.
On Oratory there are EQ settings for Starfield according to Crinacle target, it's way more relax this way but it lacks bass
I tried the E2XR for some days, I wonder about their popularity because yeah, mids are a bit "tough", no ? And recessed highs, it sounded a bit like an old radio with only medium.
Gonna give a try to the budget Blon BL01 (risk of bloated bass) and then maybe the Audiosense DT200 (no peaks at all according to Harman target but a bit recessed high mids)