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There are some disturbing trends around here. Maybe it's trolling or maybe it's just dorky behavior. It starts with a member quoting a post which they did not give a like to. In their response they disagree with the quoted post in either a silly or nitpicking way. Lately I'm seeing accusations that the member in the quoted post was sensitive, defensive or dramatic. My view is these accusations are rarely true and are the product of "the best defense is a good offense" mentality.
Our mods recommend not replying to anything suspicious. This is good advice however, often the first engagement is mild enough to not be suspicious, while any response produces an escalation.
Remember, there is a report button on every post. With the volume around here the mods can't possibly read everything. A lack of consideration for others stifles discussion.
If you think a post is sensitive, defensive or dramatic think twice before making that accusation. It's probably not true. Don't quote posts to disagree unless it's not possible to express your thought otherwise. There is a fine line between seeking clarity and writing something that looks like criticism of the person you quote.
Our mods recommend not replying to anything suspicious. This is good advice however, often the first engagement is mild enough to not be suspicious, while any response produces an escalation.
Remember, there is a report button on every post. With the volume around here the mods can't possibly read everything. A lack of consideration for others stifles discussion.
If you think a post is sensitive, defensive or dramatic think twice before making that accusation. It's probably not true. Don't quote posts to disagree unless it's not possible to express your thought otherwise. There is a fine line between seeking clarity and writing something that looks like criticism of the person you quote.
