Try playing the O-Zone Percussion Group's Jazz Variants. The drums really kick in at about 1 minute 30 seconds into the cut. Playing this track back a bit over 100dB sounds amazing on the right system and just plain loud on others.
BTW: The large bass drum on that recording is very reverberant and will wreak havoc if your have room modes that get excited.
I am familiar with this track and it really sounds amazing. However the recording technique is such that it has captured much of the ambiance as in binaural recordings and on my system it has a lot of depth information, putting the entire presentation far, far away behind the loudspeakers, also the front wall. In my living room, front wall is much closer than that. As a result, I get the presentation that they are "over there" and I'm listening to it from another room, through some kind of window. My system is capable of reproduction of such recordings, just not with the current living room setup. At my workshop I set it up this way and the imaging is spooky real in a sense that instruments have their halo floating mid air but they are nowhere to be seen. Great recordings, some Chesky records binaurals sound like that and I love it, just not for my current setup and room. In my living room, they are shy of made for someone else's pinnae.
The large bass drum in the recording, I see what you mean, but it doesn't have any audible detrimental effects on my room, it just shakes it. This is because of me following some of the Earl Geddes recipes when it comes to directivity control. In my opinion, he is right. Having a flat DI from 700-7000Hz and flat FR at some degrees of axis which enables you to toe in the mains so that the side walls are less affected, are indeed a tool for defeating poor room acoustics. This way the direct sound is what you hear, and late reflections are still able to add ambiance. With my current setup, if I listen to a slow sinewave sweep, frequencies starting from just bellow 700Hz, up to the end of (my) audible band, are localized completely anechoic, inside my head. Essentially, I listen to music close field, from 3,5 meters away, if it makes sense. And it's not a "head in a vice", in fact I'm able to move or rotate my head wherever I deem fit. At MLP, the room acoustics for me are almost entirely discarded.
Sorry If I went too much off topic, but I wanted to explain why for me in the recording you suggested, there is nothing visceral about the drum kit, but only the large bass drum. It's a setup issue, for practical reasons.
There is a recording that I sadly know nothing about which is the end of "circle of confusion" for me, which puts a "real" drum kit inside my room. Track is right here and I'm not able to find it elsewhere (queued at 3:53):
For me, my system and setup, this recording has captured the very essence of what it should sound and feel like, all the timbre and the dynamics. So close to the real thing that if I went outside the room, it still sounds like a real drum kit is playing inside my room. Just a wonderful performance and recording technique, with great imaging and almost lifelike impact, even in the upper bass and lower midrange. I say almost as a good thing because the impact of it already is at my threshold of discomfort (within my systems capabilities), and at home it is just loud enough. Any louder and it seems it would be approaching heart attack area.