Haven't read the whole thread so apologies if it's been mentioned, but the core Beyer DT series (770, 880, 990) all seem to benefit from basic mods like putting a layer of felt or paper towel over the driver (beneath the foam disc that comes with the pad). I know
@solderdude's post about taming the treble has been pretty influential in this regard, and I found it helpful when facing the same issue.
I do this on my 770 with a single layer of paper towel and it effectively nukes the treble spike and gives them a relatively more balanced sound. Granted, the 770 has a somewhat different frequency response than the others: they come packed with way more sub-bass, a weird dip in the upper bass, fairly even mids, and the same murder treble as the 990, just slightly less zealous. All this to say, zapping the worst of the treble brings the low-end to the fore in an ear-pleasing way. They still don't sound particularly balanced; the sub-bass is quite voluminous, the upper bass notch is still a bit strange, and the treble is still spicy, but they take the painful stock tuning and make it much more "fun". Paired with good soundstage for a closed-back and excellent comfort and durability, I find the 770 80 ohm to be worth the price for those times when I need a closed back for home use. The K371 has a better tuning but major tradeoffs in comfort, difficulty in getting a good seal, durability, diminished soundstage, etc.
As for the 990... yeah, seems pretty broken. The 880 has a better reputation from folks who like the Diffuse Field target; the treble is less intense, and it doesn't have the same upper bass / lower mid emphasis. Instead it's just lean and bright. Some folks like that. I'm guessing the driver has the same limitations in how it handles bass EQ, so Harman fans should probably look elsewhere. Still, Beyerdynamics have a very particular charm. Probably not what this crowd is looking for, but they're a live tracking workhorse for a reason.