I think folks should try a pair of these:
JTR Orbit Shifter LFU:
Yes, this subwoofer can shift the orbit of planets.
Once you've demo'd a pair for a while, any sub you ever buy will seem quite small and tidy in comparison.
My living room is 2525ft^3. I have a pair of large ported 15" subs, but both tucked away unobtrusively. Most of the furniture in the room is quite a bit larger. Some can use sub this size as end tables, etc. Now that my wife has experienced what basically unlimited clean full bandwidth output with +/- 1-2 dB response at any level we could ever care to listen, she is dead set strongly opposed to downgrading subs. A pair of Infinity R12 or JBL550P, which many would apparently consider enormous behemoths, you could not pay my wife to swap down to such sized subs. She has come to appreciate the capability of larger, low distortion subs. Granted, if I had a much smaller room, I would definitely be fine with smaller subs. But I would probably figure out a way to make something like PSA's S1512 fit even if I had a MUCH smaller space.
Everyone's needs are different. My daughter in college has satellite speakers and a little baby 6" sub....a desktop 2.1 system. Its plenty for her, more than she needs.
Now if I lived in a very small shared living space in Europe with neighbors, I wouldn't need even something like PSA's small sealed 15. A small sealed 10" would be fine. I have a JBL550P($189 new on sale) down in my workout room, and it has far more capability than I need for that use.
I also understand that for some, tiny and unobtrusive is a high priority. At that point, one just has to decide how much they want to spend to maximize the performance available in smaller packages, such as JL Audio's small sealed offerings i.e E110/E112.
Luckily, there are products that fill all these needs. I think issues arise when folks that are only familiar with tiny HTiB sized "subs" attempt to fill a home theater with bass and expect a pair of "enormous" SB-1000's to do the job. The lower you want to play with accuracy and low distortion, cost and capability requirements skyrocket quickly. My pair of subs actually cost the *MSRP* of my LCR, and for me, that balance is perfect.