This is a new one on me. The mere fact that metal has poor intrinsic damping does not, in and of itself, mean that it happens to an extent that would be audible. Maybe it does audibly affect the sound, but this cannot be demonstrated by hitting it with another piece of metal or a wooden drumstick or anything else. If I bought a pair of speaker stands and I believed that this was occurring to an extent that audibly affected the sound, I would be inclined to return them and get something else, something made out of, oh, I dunno, maybe wood. But if I owned a pair of metal stands and was convinced that I was hearing the stands ringing but wanted to keep them for whatever reason, one possible solution that I might try would be to get some vinyl tubing and pack it in as tightly as I could. The total cost would be less using larger diameter tubing, so long as it isn't so large that you can't get enough of it in there.
If you have an urge to rap on it with your knuckle (or with a wooden stick or whatever) to decide whether the material you used has solved the problem, then it is likely that you didn't have a genuine reason to think there was a problem. If you had actually heard the ringing, then you should be able to tell whether it is fixed just by listening, without having to rap on it with your knuckles or anything else. I would wager that the majority of people who do this will find it impossible to refrain from rapping on it to tell whether the problem is fixed.