But this is the point
@AndrewMason makes above:
"The key to avoiding this is buying cables that have no portion of the cable carrying shared ground current. i.e. "4-wire""
So you need to visually see 2 cables going all the way from TRS plug to the ears -i.e V-config.
If there's a Y-config (with a split) then they are sharing ground for the majority of the length of the cable - the mechanism for crosstalk (per Andrew above).
Unless I could un-screw the TRS plug and see 4-wires, i.e. separate grounds running away from the plug (and insulated from each other) but I can't
@RayDunzl
I'm only quoting Andrew above. I'm definitely no expert.